More than 60% of American adults sleep with a significant other, or at least they try to. While studies suggest that sleeping together has positive benefits on one’s health, it also brings about issues with one’s quality of sleep. Tossing and turning, temperature control, snoring, and distractions can all have negative affects on your sleep quality and health. If sleeping with your significant other is a struggle, you are not alone.
Follow these 8 tips to help the two of you sleep better together:
- Invest in the best mattress for both of you. Try out a number of mattress options, ideally with an expert, to find the perfect comfort level and support for the both of you. A memory foam mattress can be a good option for couples, as it diminishes the effects of tossing and turning and does not transfer motion.
- Find the perfect pillow and replace it regularly. Along with your mattress, your pillow is key to helping you fall asleep and stay asleep. Find a pillow that works for your sleeping style and replace it every two to three years. Over time, pillows change shape and collect enough bacteria, mold and dust mites to make it unhealthy.
- Minimize disruptions. Use heavy curtains or shades, cover electronics, or try using a sleep mask to cover your eyes and keep distracting lights at bay. Turn phones off or on silent and if possible, keep the pets and the kids out of bed.
- Control the temperature. Often times, couples have different temperature preferences. To address this, have your own blankets on the bed or use a dual-zone mattress pad, like the Chilipad, which allows each of you to heat and cool your side of the bed to your preferred temperature.
- Stagger bedtimes. If you have come to the conclusion that your partner keeps you from falling asleep due to snoring or tossing and turning, try going to sleep first. They can join you once you have fallen into a deep sleep.
- Silence is best. Consider wearing earplugs to quiet snoring and other outside noises. If you and your partner wake up at different times, look into a vibrating alarm clock that you can place in your pillow so it does not disturb your partner when it’s time to wake up.
- Make sleep a priority. Since the quality of sleep affects mental and physical health, it is important to make adequate sleep a top priority.
- Relax. Sometimes it is hard to disconnect, relax, and be present in the moment. At the end of the day, this is your time to do this and to reconnect with your partner.